Cooking Without Borders

How intuitive cooking sets you free

There's something uniquely challenging about cooking in someone else's kitchen.

Whether you're visiting family, staying in a holiday rental, or just cooking at a friend's place, it can feel like you've forgotten how to cook altogether.

Everything is in the wrong place. The knives are different. The stove behaves mysteriously. And somehow, the spice drawer never has exactly what you're looking for.

A bit like trying to drive in a foreign country - you know how to drive, but the controls are slightly off, the traffic flows differently, and you have to consciously think about things that are usually automatic.

As it happens, I'm experiencing this kitchen culture shock right now: I'm writing this from Greece, cooking in my mum's kitchen while taking care of her.

But guess what... once you accept that it’s all a bit different, it's actually quite liberating.

Here's the thing: When you cook intuitively - by feeling and taste rather than by recipe - you discover a kind of cooking freedom that travels with you. Because you're cooking with concepts rather than rules, you can adapt to any kitchen, any ingredients, any circumstances.

The Magic of Concept Cooking

Fact is, most cooking doesn't need a specific recipe at all. What you need instead is a concept - a general idea of what you're making. Is it a curry? A soup? A stir-fry? A tomato sauce?

These are patterns that work anywhere, anytime, with whatever ingredients and equipment you have on hand.

Take a curry, for example: aromatics + spices + main ingredients + liquid. That's it. Whether you have two spices or twenty, a fancy cooker or a hotplate, the concept works.

Breaking Free from Recipes

When you cook by concept, a world of possibilities opens up. You now get to:

Use the vegetables that are actually available (and probably local and seasonal)
Work with the spices you find in the cupboard
Adapt to the pots and pans at hand
Create something delicious without measuring everything
Trust your instincts about timing and temperature

In contrast, think about the limitations of being slave to a recipe that demands specific ingredients in exact amounts, specialised equipment and following precise steps. It's like trying to speak a language by only memorizing specific phrases instead of understanding the grammar and vocabulary that let you form your own sentences.

Learning to Trust Your Kitchen Instincts

Somehow, many of us have lost confidence in our ability to cook without detailed instructions. But cooking ‘from the hip’ isn't some mystical talent - it's a natural human skill that we can all develop.

But just as language learners progress from memorised phrases to creating their own sentences, cooks can evolve from following recipes to cooking creatively.

When you're in an unfamiliar kitchen, you're actually in the perfect position to strengthen this skill. Without your usual setup, you're forced to:

Pay more attention to how things look, smell, and taste
Work with what you have rather than what you "should" have
Problem-solve creatively when you don't have your usual tools
Trust your instincts about when things are done

The Freedom of Flexible Thinking

Last night, I made a simple curry in my mum's kitchen. Different spices, unfamiliar pot, temperamental stove - and yet, the result was delicious. The concept was my guide, but the details came from what I had in front of me.

Did it taste like the curries I make at home? No. Was it delicious? Absolutely!

This adaptability is what makes intuitive cooking so liberating: every meal becomes an adventure rather than an exercise in precision.

From Constraint to Creativity

Ironically, cooking in a different kitchen can actually spark your creativity. Without your usual ingredients and tools, you're pushed to:

Think outside your usual patterns
Try new combinations
Discover local ingredients
Learn from how others organise their kitchens
Develop new techniques

It's not about having everything just so - it's about understanding the basic principles and being flexible enough to work with what you have.

Trust your taste. Trust your instincts. And remember: It's not rocket science. It's just dinner!

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PS. Here's a kitchen challenge for you:

Next time you're cooking anywhere - even in your own kitchen - try this: Pick a cooking concept you know well (stir-fry, pasta, soup). Now make it without looking at a recipe. Use whatever ingredients you find. Trust your taste. Trust your instincts. Remember: The worst that can happen is a so-so dinner. The best? You'll discover your inner chef was there all along, just waiting for permission to play. Now go cook something!

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